Yelling or swearing (aka:  Emotional Bullying)  

Name calling or insults; mocking

Threats and intimidation

Ignoring or excluding

Isolating/Humiliating/Blaming

Denial of the abuse and blaming of the victim

Calling you names, insulting you or continually criticizing you

Refusing to trust you and acting jealous or possessive

Monitoring where you go, who you call and who you spend time with

Demanding to know where you are every minute

Using weapons to threaten to hurt you

Punishing you by withholding affection

Threatening to hurt you, the children, your family or your pets

Damaging your property when they’re angry

Blaming you for the abuse

Accusing you of cheating and being often jealous of your outside relationships

Serially cheating on you and then blaming you for his or her behavior

Cheating on you intentionally to hurt you and then threatening to cheat again

Cheating to prove that they are more desired, worthy, etc. than you are

Attempting to control your appearance: what you wear, how much/little makeup you wear

Telling you that you will never find anyone better, or that you are lucky to be with  anyone

Threats of violence or abandonment

Intentionally frightening

Making an individual fear that they will not receive the food or care they need

Lying

Failing to check allegations of abuse against them

Making derogative or slanderous statements about an individual to others

Socially isolating an individual, failing to let them have visitors

Withholding important information

Demeaning an individual because of the language they speak

Intentionally misinterpreting traditional practices

Repeatedly raising the issue of death

Telling an individual that they are too much trouble

Ignoring or excessively criticizing

Unreasonably ordering an individual around; treating an individual like a servant or child